Two people go to the market to sell their wares. One conceals
his goods and calls out to people, very loudly, to
come and buy them, saying that if they miss this
opportunity they will regret it for the rest of
their lives. He requires people to believe what he
says without giving them any evidence to support his
claims. The other man spreads his goods out for all
to see and examine, but neither threatens nor
promises; if people want to buy, they buy, otherwise
not. This person is like the Buddha, who never
called anyone to believe or follow Him, saying that
if they did, they would be saved and go to heaven
when they died, but if not, they would go to hell.
What is Wisdom? Wisdom is the ability to distinguish
between the True and the False, the Right and the
Wrong, the ability to see things as they are, and
not as we would like them to be. And it is the
capacity to live according to that seeing and
understanding. It leads us to Enlightenment, which
is something that might make even a blind person
say: “Oh yes, I see! I understand!” Stevie Wonder,
the blind singer, once said: “I want to help people
to see the beauty that is all around us!” See?
Without eyesight? Yes, that’s right! Wisdom is
seeing. Many people have good eyesight but not much
wisdom, so they see and understand very little.
IN
1984, I wrote my first book, KEYS FOR REFUGEES,
mainly for the refugees of SE Asia, to encourage
them to hold onto and understand their religion in
the face of the concerted efforts of missionaries to
convert them. Years later, I rewrote it under the
new title of DOWN TO EARTH, updating and
enlarging it. Now, almost ten years later still, it
incarnates for the third time, with new name and
form. And since I have also changed, I’ve taken on a
new name, too, a name that I feel suits me more than
previous names, for this is what I am and have been
as far back as I remember: a Beachcomber. I
have always enjoyed—
and still do—
strolling along the beach looking at what the tides
have cast up: sea-shells, pebbles, driftwood, and so
on. It is just an extension of this to look at life,
open to the unexpected, trying to extract lessons
therefrom, wondering how to use what others may find
useless.
Collectively speaking, we are the most
fortunate people in history, at a stage of evolution
that has never been reached before. It is as if we
are on a mountainside, with people below us for as
far as we can see, until they look like tiny ants or
grains of sand on the plain. We do not and cannot
know who those people were, but we can
understand that if they had not been where they were
then, so long ago, we would not be where we are now.
We are here now only because they were there then;
if the chain of continuity had broken, we simply
would not exist.
By ourselves, we accomplish nothing;
whatever we are able to accomplish we do so only
because of the support of countless others, living
and dead; even our languages, which make our lives
so very rich and meaningful, are not ours, but have
come from others. There is nothing we can claim as
our own; we exist only in context, as part of
something infinitely bigger than our
individual selves.
Humbled by the view below us and the
realization that we owe so much to so many, turn,
and look up: the mountain-top is so far above us,
hidden in the mist and clouds, and cannot be
perceived; we— you and I— will never reach the top. Like those before us, we are privileged
to take just a few steps upwards before making way
for others to come after us. We will die, of course,
but if we live purposefully, we will die with the
satisfaction of knowing that our living and striving
will help others to climb higher than we did. For
what are our lives otherwise? It is crucial to see
and feel ourselves in perspective, in context, for
if we think of ourselves in isolation, separate from
the rest of existence, there is no meaning.
What we are doing when we embark upon a
spiritual path is to deliberately turn our back on
the ways of the world, and go against the stream,
hence the title of this book. It is a choice we
consciously make, and shouldn’t be half-hearted
about it. But it doesn’t mean that we walk out on it
altogether and retire to a cave as a hermit; it
means we have decided to try to keep the Dharma at
the center of our lives— around which all our activities revolve—
instead of at the circumference; it is not something
part-time.
Some articles herein are little-changed
from DOWN TO EARTH, while others have been
modified and upgraded, some of them considerably.
Others are completely new. I am writing in small
print, not just to economize on paper—
though that is one reason, I admit—
but to make it a bit harder for people to read. And
why should I do that, instead of making it easier?
Well, why should we treat people as little children,
always to be spoon-fed? I know some people will
complain about it being ‘too small’, so I’ll
forestall them by asking how they manage to read
newspapers?
If you are sufficiently interested to
want to read it, you will do so, even if you must
use a magnifying-glass. And I guarantee that if you
have the necessary interest, you will get something
from it. It depends upon you; my aim, as
always, is to turn you back to yourself.
BELIEF
IS CENTRAL AND ESSENTIAL to Theistic or
God-based religions; without Belief they would not
exist. This is one of the main points in which
Buddhism (as well as Confucianism and the Tao
of Lao Tsu) differs from other religions: being
non-theistic, it doesn’t require belief!
And why? Because we can see, for
ourselves— if we wish— what it teaches. When we merely believe something our minds are
already made up about it. How to discover what is
true if our minds are already made up? We must be
open-minded and eager to learn, not closed-minded
and dogmatic.
Believe it or not, Belief is an obstacle
to finding out what is true. We believe when we
do not know; when we know, we do not believe! Seeing
is knowing; believing is not-knowing. Belief
changes; Knowledge does not. We know, for example,
that fire is hot and water is wet; this is so now,
it was so before, and it will always be so; it’s not
a matter of belief.
Belief and Disbelief are the opposite
sides of the same coin; they go together,
inseparably, like black and white, day and night;
one implies the other. Only if we can put aside both
belief and disbelief, will we be able to see, and
not before.
Belief binds our minds more firmly than
chains may bind our bodies. Most of us are prisoners
of belief, in one form or another, and even disbelievers
are prisoners of it—
the very fact that they proclaim their disbelief so
loudly proves this, for Disbelief is just the
reverse side of Belief. We cannot disbelieve
unless we first believe.
Hundreds of years ago, Europeans
believed the Earth to be the center of the Universe,
with the Sun and all the other stars and planets
turning about it, as that is what the Church taught,
and woe betide anyone who thought otherwise. But,
after observing the skies through the newly-invented
telescope, an Italian scientist named GALILEO
(1564-1642), discovered that this was not so, and
that our planet revolves around the Sun. When he
made known his findings, however, there was an
uproar, and the authorities
— the Church of Rome, that is, which had tremendous power in all
areas of life at that time— not ready to accept facts, persecuted him. Under threat of being
burnt at the stake, Galileo was made to sign a
confession stating that he was misguided and wrong;
not content with this, the Church sentenced him to
house-arrest for the remainder of his life. Perhaps
he should have expected this and been more discreet
(as should Salmon Rushdie in recent times). But
then, the truth might have had to wait a little
longer before finding its way to the surface.
In 1980—
1980, not 1580!— a special
Church commission met in Rome to reconsider
the question of the Earth’s position in the Solar
System, and after discussing the issue at great
length, agreed that Science had conclusively proved
that the Earth revolves around the Sun, and that
therefore Galileo had been right. Then, in May 1983,
Pope John-Paul II presided over a meeting of a large
gathering of Church dignitaries, historians and
scientists, to openly admit the Church’s mistake and
absolve Galileo. What a loss of face for the Church
that has so long regarded itself as infallible
to admit this! At last, poor Galileo was
vindicated
—
350 years after his death!—
and the guilty conscience of the Church somewhat
assuaged. So, Truth does eventually triumph—
sometimes, at least—
but too late to do Galileo any good.
We adapt amazingly quickly to
technological change and take it in our stride; we
are sophisticated and competent that way.
Spiritually, however, most of us are rather
backward, and thus there is a great imbalance in our
lives. The happiness we desire so much eludes us; we
do not understand that it is a spiritual quality
instead of something material.
There is an urgent need to balance the
inner and the outer life; many of our problems exist
because we have failed to achieve a balance.
Externally—
technologically and materially—
we have made tremendous progress in the past few
centuries, and especially towards the end of the
twentieth century. But mentally, we’ve not kept up;
indeed, many of us live in mental caves, even while
our bodies repose in fine houses. This causes
trouble, of course.
Unless we are to be hopelessly
impractical and discard the comforts and luxuries of
modern life, we must update our minds, through
understanding—
and through living according to such
understanding—
how we inter-exist and depend upon others. If we
cannot— or will not— do this, we shall always be torn between two worlds: the old and
the new, the primitive and the modern.
Some people, trying to live by old
standards that seem to them to have worked in the
past, reject modernity and its products, but what we
need is a way—
a practical way—
that will allow us to live by time-tested codes and
standards in the present, without feeling
dislocated. Is there such a Way? In order to find
out, we must examine the history and structure of
religions and philosophies, not merely believe; if
we do so, perhaps we will find that some of them are
just facades, like film-sets, or fit only for books
on mythology and fairy-tales. You can give a dog
fleshless bones, and for a time it will be happy
with them, but not forever!
Religions, over the ages, have offered
palliatives for people’s sorrows and hope concerning
life-after-death. But many of them are ‘fleshless
bones’—
things impossible to verify, things dependent on
mere belief. Is your religion— the religion you have inherited from others, the religion you have
accepted without question, or the religion you have,
in some cases, chosen for yourself, for whatever
reason— a collection of fleshless bones, an old skeleton in the closet, or
is it alive and dynamic? Ask yourself this: honestly
and fearlessly: "What does my religion offer? " Does
it offer only worn-out explanations and unreasonable
dogmas? Does it provide you with a world-view
consistent with present and ever-changing
conditions? Does it help you maintain your sanity in
this insane world that is rushing headlong to
destruction? Does it help you see unity in
diversity? Does it help you to feel part of things,
even if only a small part among others? Does
it describe your place among, and relationship to
all other things, living and non-living? Does it
inform you of your importance, or does it grind you
down into servility and insignificance?
When all they can throw at us are
promises of salvation and life-in-heaven on the
other side of death if we believe them, and threats
of Hell for disbelieving, but nothing to live on
now, it is a sign that they are spiritually
bankrupt. How long are we going to be tricked by
these cheaters posing as teachers?
The crux of the matter is FEAR; we are
afraid to die, and even afraid to live; we are quite
unadventurous and unwilling to think for ourselves.
If we found meaning in our lives, if our lives were
not so shallow and empty, then fear of living and
dying, and of what happens after death, would
diminish. We would need no motive for living well in
the Here-and-Now, but would do what has to be done
without thinking too much about results.
If we are honest with life, life will be
honest with us; it’s not a game without rules, and
the sooner we learn the rules, the sooner we’ll be
able to play without continually losing.
If we examine our beliefs objectively,
we may see if they are valid or not. It is not
enough to accept the word of others, or believe
what’s written in books; we must strive to know for
ourselves. We live in an enlightened age
(‘enlightened’ in some ways, at least, though in
other ways it seems to be ‘ennightened’!) Why
be content to call ourselves ‘Buddhists’,
‘Christians’, this or that, just because our parents
and grandparents do/did? We have our own lives to
live, and should be able to choose, for ourselves,
which way we want to go. When we go shopping, we
choose what we want to buy from a variety of goods,
instead of buying the first thing we come to. It is
possible now for most of us to study almost
anything; there is no secret knowledge reserved for
the elite few any more; the wonderful ability to
read unlocks the door of the House of Knowledge.
Surely, if such things as Happiness and Truth are
important to us, we will search in many places, and
not restrict ourselves to the ideas of those around
us.
Sadly, it is much easier to cheat people
than it is to enlighten them!
Only
lazy people believe what others tell them, and are
easily deceived by the many crafty and unscrupulous
people in the world, whether they are door-to-door
salesmen, politicians, missionaries, or just plain
liars and thieves!
The beliefs of many religions do not
stand up to close scrutiny and investigation, as
they are not based upon facts. We can, of course—
and do—
interpret things to suit ourselves, and find meaning where
there are no meanings; we like to play
hide-and-seek, and we play it so long that we forget
it is a game and take it for real, and so get lost.
Or we go to sleep, and sleep for a long time, until
something— often something painful and unpleasant—
comes along to disturb our dreams, and sets us on
the Way once more.
Seldom do we see with our own eyes and
minds, but usually through those of others: our
family, friends, leaders, writers, public figures—
sometimes even with the eyes of our enemies! We
accept the standards of others, so what they call
‘beautiful’, ‘ugly’, ‘good’ and ‘bad’, we also do;
thus, we are easily manipulated and controlled. If
we used our own eyes and minds, we could learn to
see things much clearer and deeper; we would become
aware of much more wonder and beauty around us, even
in things that are dismissed by others as
‘commonplace’ and ‘ordinary’. Look for yourself, and
see!
I’m not saying here, however, that we
should not try to see things from other people’s
points-of-view, because it is extremely important to
do so, and the more angles we can look at a thing
from, the clearer the picture we shall get of it.
No, what I mean is that we should not allow
ourselves to be unduly influenced by others into
accepting their viewpoints and beliefs without
critical examination. We have the capacity to think,
do we not? This is the major factor that
distinguishes us from the lower animals, which live
by instinct and have little choice over the way they
live. We can think, we can choose and
decide, we can change our lives—
if we want to.
Can we live without belief about
life-after-death, heaven, hell, etc.? Can we listen
to others—
teachers, preachers, parents, leaders, and so on— without belief, so that we may discover whether what they say is
true and useful or not? I would say, "Yes, it is."
Do not believe me, either. Try it, for
yourself, and see.
Why be content with old bones?
Demand reality, now!
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IF IT'S WRONG, DISCARD IT |
YEARS
AGO, there was a program on British TV called
Catweazle, about a wizard from the time of the
mythical King Arthur, who—
because one of his spells had gone awry— found himself transposed into the 1960’s. Imagine his surprise at
the amazing things he saw all around him— things that we take so much for granted! An electric light-bulb
fascinated him, and seemed like ‘the sun in a
bottle’! And when he learned that the device by
which we communicate with each other over long
distances is called a telephone, he
remembered that word as ‘telling-bone’, as it
had some resemblance to a bone! There were other
funny things that I’ve now forgotten.
Now, suppose it were possible to take a
TV set 500 years back into the past and demonstrate
it to the people of that time: how do you think they
would react? Undoubtedly, some would declare it
sorcery— an instrument of ‘the Devil’— and try to destroy it. Some would say it is a miracle, and make of
it a new religion, with attendant priests to operate
and use it to keep people in subjection. Others
would denounce it as impossible, a fraud, an
illusion. Still others would try to discover how so
many people and things could get inside such a small
box. Reactions would be varied. But would anyone
understand it?
Nowadays, television is part of our
lives, and almost no-one questions it; it’s just
there, and has been for as long as most of us can
remember. But even so, few of us understand how it
works. Some still deem it an instrument of ‘the
Devil’ (just before I rewrote this, there was a
report that the Muslim fundamentalist party that now
controls most of Afghanistan—
the Taleban—
had ordered people there to dispose of their TV sets and VCRs
within 15 days, claiming them responsible for
immorality). Others still consider it a miracle (and
in a way, it is); and some do, indeed, make of it a
religion. Most people just turn it on and watch it.
My point here is that, as knowledge
increases, ignorance decreases. Honest people—
those who sincerely wish to find out what is true,
and are not content to follow others or accept
theories that have been handed down from the past—
are not afraid to discard ideas that are wrong,
useless and harmful when they know them to be so;
they are not ashamed to admit that they don’t know
when they don’t know, for it is from recognizing
ignorance that knowledge arises; indeed, as
Confucius is reported to have said: "To admit that
you do not know what you do not know—
that is knowledge", or, as the Buddha said: "The
fool who knows he is a fool is wise to that extent,
but the fool who thinks he is wise is indeed a
fool!"
Why have Religion and Science been so
long apart? Must Religion always be dressed up in
superstition, ritual and silly beliefs? Can there be
a religion that does not conflict with Science— a Scientific Religion, or a Religious Science? Can we, perhaps,
look at things objectively and scientifically?
Scientists are willing to change their theories when
they see they no longer apply; it is because of this
that Science has advanced so far and continues to
advance. If we had advanced religiously at the same
rate we have advanced scientifically, the world
would not be in the confused state it is in; but
most people seem to be ‘living in caves’ as far as
religion is concerned, and afraid, unwilling or
unable to bring themselves up-to-date in that area.
Because of this, the world is still subject to
so-called ‘religious’ conflicts and wars, and this
will probably cause the almost-inevitable Third
World War.
There are two kinds of knowledge: Direct
Knowledge and Indirect Knowledge. Most of our
knowledge is not our own but second-hand— that is, it comes to us from other sources: people, books, TV,
etc; we know comparatively little by ourselves. On
the way of self-discovery, however, there is no
substitute for Direct Knowing; knowledge from
others, from books, from hearsay—
indispensable though it is in many areas— is not enough. We must experience Truth or Reality for ourselves,
just like we experience the heat from fire: we
know it burns, not merely believe it!
Knowledge about mechanics, computers,
carpentry, printing, etc., etc., is very important,
as it enables us not only to earn a living, but also
to improve the world we live in. Life is much more
than just earning a living and surviving, however;
that kind of knowledge concerns the ‘outer’
life. But what of the ‘inner’ life? We must consider
that, too, so that there is a balance, a harmony
between the two, instead of conflict. The West has
concentrated largely on external things and has
advanced tremendously in this area; it has produced
many things of great benefit for the whole world,
but it has also created things of horror and
detriment, like chemical and bacteriological
weapons, etc. It neglected the inner life in favor
of the outer life, so that now, there is great
imbalance and conflict everywhere. That is often the
way it is; we swing from one extreme to the other,
like the pendulum of a clock, until, learning that
extremes are states of disharmony and suffering, we
gradually find a balance, and the pendulum stops
swinging.
The world is full of wrong and foolish
ideas— in fact, the World itself— not the Planet Earth, but the World as a political structure; let
us recognize the difference— is an idea! There is no separate reality or entity called ‘the
World’; we have made it; it’s an idea, and ideas are
subject to change, sometimes very quickly! If we
understand this, it becomes possible to change wrong
and foolish ideas into better ideas; there is no
reason why we should not, and every reason why we
should.
The Buddha said: "There are two things
without limits: Space, and Human Stupidity". How can
suffering diminish when its cause prevails? It is
the foolish ideas—
ignorance—
that cause most of the suffering and all of the evil
in the world; it is not because we are bad and
sinful that we do bad things, but because we are
blind and stupid— either part-time or full-time. But must we remain so? Only if we
want to.
As far
as Understanding is concerned, there are four kinds
of people in the world:
(1)
Those who understand quickly;
(2) Those who understand
slowly;
(3) Those who do not
understand;
(4) Those who misunderstand.
AND IT
IS BETTER TO KNOW NOTHING AT ALL IF WHAT YOU KNOW IS
WRONG. Wrong ideas will only cause you pain.
Have you noticed how we always consider
ourselves right and others wrong? Obviously, we
think Right and Wrong are people: Mr. Right
and Mrs. Wrong. Indeed, we do not need to
look very deeply to find this extremely-myopic way
of viewing things at the root of many of the world’s
problems. Should we not try to understand this?
Right and wrong are not people, not I,
not you, and if we would only stop to
consider what is right and wrong in the
context of a particular situation, instead of who
is right and wrong, many of our problems would
disappear instantly. Test it, for yourself, and see!
T0
LEARN IS SOMETHING quite different than to study.
Learning is basic and involves our own experience,
and for this there is no substitute. Study, on the
other hand, is academic, and usually of things
already known, shown by others, cut-and-dried, like
hay.
A little baby does not sit down and
study how to walk from a book, but learns from its
own experience, and after much failure, frustration,
pain and tears. Even babies born blind learn how to
walk; it is not merely a matter of imitating others.
And so it is upon the Way.
If you wish to learn, pay no attention
to the personality or appearance of the teacher;
such things should not concern you. Listen to what
he says, and think about it clearly, to see if it is
true and useful or not. If you like or dislike the
teacher, your vision will be clouded thereby.
Is there a difference between 'chicken'
and 'kitchen'? Is there a difference between
'teacher' and 'cheater'? I have heard people, just
learning English, confuse 'chicken' with 'kitchen';
just so, many people confuse cheaters with teachers.
There are many cheaters posing as teachers, so we
must beware; neither believe or disbelieve what the
teacher says, but check it carefully. The teacher is
important only insofar as what he says is true and
pertinent. He should not cause you to depend upon
him, as upon a drug, but should help you to learn
and understand that everyone and everything is a
teacher. This is his duty as a teacher.
Once, a king went out to visit a certain
part of his kingdom, accompanied by his courtiers
and servants. On the way, they came to a
mango-grove, and the king noticed that, while one
tree had a good crop of ripe mangoes, the other
trees had none. Being fond of mangoes, like most of
us, he thought: "On the way back, after I've
concluded my business, we'll stop and gather some of
these mangoes"; he then went on ahead. His
followers, however, had different ideas. They were
also fond of mangoes, but were not willing to wait
until later; instead, unbeknown to the king, they
took sticks and stones and knocked down every mango
on the tree, and broke many branches in doing so.
When they returned later on that day,
the king was looking forward to eating mangoes, but
all he found was a battered tree stripped of fruit.
Being a wise man, however, he didn't become angry or
sad, but thought: "This is interesting. The tree
that had much fruit is badly damaged, but the other
trees, which had none, are untouched. There is a
lesson for me here: Have much, and suffer much; have
little, and suffer little." With this in mind, he
returned to the palace, where he called his eldest
son to him and placed the crown on his head, saying:
"From now on, you are the king. Rule wisely". Then
he changed his royal robes for the simple garb of a
mendicant, left the palace, and went off to live in
a forest, far away. And if anyone happened to come
across him there and asked him: 'Who is your
teacher'?"—
a common question that seekers ask each other— he replied: "My teacher is a mango tree".
We should not always depend upon a
teacher to teach us everything, but should cultivate
a burning interest and unquenchable spirit of
inquiry. It is infinitely better to learn than to be
taught. All the teaching in the world is useless if
we are not ready to learn.
The answers to all our problems cannot
be found in any book or books. If we depend upon
books to solve all our problems we shall be forever
running to the library to see what the books have to
say about them. This is not to deny the importance
of books, because there are countless things we can
learn from them, and it would be silly to discard
them as useless. Understanding something of Dharma
—
which we might get from books—
however, takes us further than books can, and helps
and encourages us to develop the intelligence
necessary to find our own answers.
To follow the Way, we must be learners,
not students (it's not an academic pursuit), and
this means being humble and ready to admit we don't
know when we don't know. Pretending to know when we
don't know, and taking academic knowledge as our own
experience, is a great obstacle. There are people
whose pride won't allow them to admit to not
knowing; before they will do that, they will lie to
conceal their ignorance, and so make a double error.
Pride is an impediment, not a virtue. It has been
written: "Be humble if you would attain Wisdom. Be
humbler still when you have attained it."
It saddens me somewhat when I hear
people say of my talks: "What can I learn from him?"
I am sad not for myself, but for them, and say:
"Yes, they may be right. But it's not because there
is nothing to be learned; it's because their minds
are already so made up, so full of ideas and
beliefs, that nothing more will go in. If you know
how to learn, you can learn something from anyone
and anything, without exception; and when learning
becomes sufficiently important to you, you will not
mind who you learn from".
To
illustrate this here, I want to tell a true little
story that came to me from a doctor somewhere in
Malaysia.
While serving in the Anaesthetic
Department of a certain hospital, Dr Tan was often
faced with the breakdown of the ageing anaesthetic
machine. Whenever this happened, a hospital
attendant by the name of Muniandy was sent
for, as he was the only one who knew how to repair
and get it running again. The doctor not only
respected Muniandy for his quiet competence, but
felt rather embarrassed that he, and no-one else,
should know how to fix the troublesome machine; he
decided that he had to learn to do it himself.
When he requested Muniandy to teach him,
however, he was met with a look of astonishment.
Muniandy was not highly educated; it was
inconceivable to him that anyone as educated and
qualified as a doctor should ask him for
instruction. He humbly refused. The doctor insisted,
however, saying that if he knew how to fix the
machine himself, and it should break down when
Muniandy was off-duty, his new ability could save
someone's life. Muniandy saw the logic of this and
therefore explained and demonstrated how the machine
worked and how to repair it. Because Muniandy’s
knowledge was that of experience instead of mere
theory, the doctor was easily able to absorb his
lesson.
When he was transferred to another
hospital, Dr Tan was confronted with an anaesthetic
machine newly-imported from Germany, with the
instructions all in German, which no-one
there understood. What he had learned from the old
machine, however, enabled Dr Tan to master the
intricacies of it, without recourse to the
instruction-manual; Muniandy was always in his mind
whenever he approached the machine.
Years later, when Dr Tan started his own
practice, Muniandy, who had by then retired, came by
to visit him. They reminisced about old times
together, and when the subject of the old machine
arose, tears came to Muniandy's eyes. He said: "In
all my 35 years of service as a hospital attendant,
you were the only doctor to ask me to teach him
anything. That is one of my happiest memories!"
Who knows everything? There is no reason
to be so proud that we cannot or will not say, °I
don't know". Only when and if we can say it,
in all sincerity and humility, will we be able to
make progress on a spiritual path.
Every situation, whether we like it or
not, is an opportunity to learn. Painful and
unpleasant things, especially, have good lessons to
impart. A mosquito is a good example of this; it can
help us to overcome our fear of pain, can help us to
strengthen our minds, to develop patience and that
highest of virtues: Compassion. How can a 'mozzie'— a thing so ordinary and despised— help us in so many ways?
Well, no-one likes being bitten by
mosquitoes, of course, but our fear of the pain from
their bites magnifies the pain out of all
proportions, and is enough to keep some people awake
at night, when these tiny but so-annoying insects
come looking for dinner. You may test it for
yourself, as an interesting experiment: Allow a
mosquito to settle on you and bite. Without slapping
it or brushing it off, observe it; it will take
about ten minutes to drink its fill. Calmly watch
the process and your own reaction, without fear or
anger. You'll notice that the pain is minimal,
whereas when you are afraid of it, it seems much
more intense. Then, when it is full, allow it to fly
away, without killing it; with a full stomach it
will hardly be able to fly, and lumber away to
digest its meal. It is said that only female
mosquitoes bite and suck blood, which they need to
fertilize their eggs; that is their nature; they
have no choice about it.
Humans, however, can choose; we
don't have to follow brutish instincts. We don't
have to suck blood (though many humans— like arms-manufacturers and other war-mongers
—
do, living on the blood and suffering of others); we
can choose to live lives of violence and
destruction, or lives of peace and creation. No-one
makes us behave like savage beasts.
After the mosquito has flown away,
maintain mindfulness and observe the urge to scratch
the itch the anti-coagulant it has injected into you
has caused, and resist it. Under observation, when
you are in control of your mind, you will find that
the desire to scratch will not be half as great as
when you do not observe it. It's a case of 'mind
over matter’, and it works.
Within a few minutes, the itchiness will
wear off, whereas if you scratch it, it will last
much longer; I have seen people with scars all over
their arms and legs from the mosquito-bites they had
scratched until they bled when they were children.
All living things wish to be happy and
avoid pain, just like us. We do not like others to
come along and disturb, hurt or kill us, and it's
the same with all forms of life; as humans, we can
and should reflect on this. Even the single-celled
amoeba will react and withdraw if a drop of weak
acid is put into a dish with it; the dislike of pain
is so universal.
The one who saves life is stronger than
the one who kills. Anyone can kill; it doesn't
require much intelligence. But to heal and save life
is not so easy, and needs compassion, thought, and
effort. If we cannot help, we should not harm.
Buddhists look upon the lesser animals,
and other living things, as their younger siblings.
They are not there for our sport, pleasure or food,
no matter which person or book says so. They are
there to live their own lives, to fulfill their own
destiny, to evolve and grow, to climb, slowly and
painfully, the Mountain of Perfection, where Birth
and Death are no more. In this, they are not
different from us. If we do not like them—
as in the case of mozzies—
we can admit our preferences, as they are of our
personality, and will always be so. But, looking
deeper, beyond the personality, with its myopia and
narrow limits, we find LOVE, and this doesn't
choose, but embraces all equally; it has nothing to
do with 'you' and 'I', with like and dislike, for it
is not of self. Self is the center of most of our
activities, but LOVE has no center, and therefore no
circumference, no limits, and we can know LOVE even
if we are not yet enlightened, by understanding the
limits of self, and going beyond them. And is that
not Enlightenment already?
|
GREAT EXPECTATIONS, GREAT
DISAPPOINTMENTS |
IF
YOU GO TO INDIA, away from the cities and towns into
the countryside, you will find life going on much
the same as it did hundreds, or even thousands
of years ago. Many villages still have no
electricity, TV, telephones, paved roads, or even
running water; people till their fields using
primitive ploughs pulled by cows or buffaloes, draw
water from wells, cook over cow-dung fires, etc.
In such conditions, it is easy to
visualize the Buddha walking, barefoot, from
place-to-place, with just an alms-bowl; His robes
would probably be dusty and travel-stained and not
often washed. Nor would He be clean-shaven every
day, as we now are. He wouldn’t always have a
specific direction in mind, and would not be in a
hurry, but would spend time with people who wished
to learn something, or whom He thought He might lead
onwards. With His great wisdom, He could discern the
capacity of people to understand, and teach them
accordingly. Can you see Him, this Great Teacher?— Teacher, Human-being, not God, or Savior, for Buddhism
rejects the idea that anyone can save another from
the effects of his own deeds.
In Richard Bach’s book, Illusions, or
the Adventures of a Reluctant Messiah, there is
a delightful little anecdote about a colony of
creatures that lived on a streambed. They spent
their entire lives clinging to rocks and weeds, with
the water flowing over them. Once, one of these
creatures, tired of clinging to the same stone,
announced that he would die of boredom if he lived
so any more, and had decided to let go and see where
the current would carry him. "Fool!", said the other
creatures nearby, "No-one has ever done that before!
You’ll be dashed against the rocks by the current
and will then die a lot quicker than by boredom!"
But he, disregarding their warnings, let go, and was
immediately carried away by the current.
At first, he was dashed against
the rocks as the others had predicted, but wasn’t
killed. Instead of resisting the rushing water, he
allowed it to carry him, and was soon lifted above
the streambed, clear of the rocks and weeds. Other
creatures below, seeing him pass by overhead,
exclaimed in surprise: "Look—
a being just like ourselves, yet he flies! He must
be a Savior, come to save us! A Savior! A Savior!"
"No!" he cried, "I am no Savior, but one just like
you. I let go, and the current carried
me. If you let go, you too will be carried along!"
But they didn’t hear him, or chose to ignore his
words, and cried all the more: "A Savior! A Savior!"
And he was swept along, out of sight, and the other
creatures remained clinging firmly to the places
where they had been born, making legends of a
Savior.
Although the Buddha stated clearly that
no-one can save another, but that all must work out
their own salvation, many Buddhists look for saviors
to save them, praying to various Buddhas and
Bodhisattvas to forgive their sins, erase their ‘bad
karma’, etc. Indeed, it sometimes seems that they
even expect monks to be saviors and supermen, too,
not wanting them to be human at all. They pay so
much respect to monks, and put them so high, that
they almost need telescopes to see them in the sky!
Then, if their heroes do something wrong or that
they don’t like, they are disappointed and the monks
fall in their esteem. But why are they disappointed?
Because the monks did something wrong, or because
they put them so high to begin with? Great
expectations breed great disappointments. And if
monks let themselves be so elevated, how can they
possibly live up to such expectations? To try is to
court disaster, because although we might like
to be enlightened, what we would like to be,
and what we are, are two different things. We
would like to be enlightened, of course, but
we don’t become enlightened merely by wishing to be
enlightened; enlightenment comes to us when we have
earned it and are ready for it, and not before.
Now, while elevating monks very high, at
the same time many people put themselves very low,
thinking, perhaps, that they are thereby exempt from
the Law; they use the monks as an excuse for doing
things that they know they shouldn’t do. Once, a man
came to tell me that he’d seen a monk smoking, and
said he thought it was very bad for monks to smoke.
I agreed with him, but said: "How can you talk about
others when you are smoking even as you are telling
me?" He rationalized this by saying that, as he was
not a monk, it was alright for him to smoke. Was
this sound reasoning, do you think? Let us examine
the mechanics of such thinking a little here.
As a monk myself, I’ve seen things from
both sides of the fence and so am qualified to say
that the Buddha’s Way, contrary to what many
Buddhists obviously think, is not only for monks,
nuns, and others who live in temples and
monasteries. It is open for anyone and everyone who
sincerely wishes to follow it. Not understanding
this, many Buddhists, in their ignorance and
indolence, want and expect others to do everything
for them. To remedy such misconceptions, it should
be clearly stated that there are not two Laws of
Life, one for monks and another for the laity, but
only one. And this Law of Cause-and-Effect makes no
distinctions as to whether a person shaves his head
or not, whether he wears a robe or ordinary clothes,
whether he stays in a monastery or at home with his
family. It is impartial, and has no preferences. If
a monk takes hold of a burning coal he will be burnt
by it, just as would a layman. A monk is subject to
sickness, aging and death, just as are lay-people;
he is not exempt from these things.
According to the Buddha, intention is
the strongest factor in the making of karma;
He said: "Intention, O monks, I declare to be
karma". You get the results of your karma,
and I get the results of mine. If it were
possible to transfer our karma to others, our
enemies would transfer all their ‘bad’ karma to us
and be rid of it, leaving us to suffer the effects
of their bad actions—
and would not that be convenient for them? However,
how could it be? And, in the same way, how could it
be possible to transfer our ‘good’ karma to others?
The reason why, as Buddhists, we are advised to
practice transferring our merit to others—
if we dare even suppose that we have any
merit to begin with—
is because it opens the mind and heart of the person
doing it, which is a meritorious action in itself,
is it not?
It is imperative to see the Buddha as He
was when He was alive on this Earth: Enlightened,
but a human being, a very warm and caring human
being. To deify the Buddha, as many people have
done, and pray to Him for assistance and salvation,
is a great mistake, for He never told anyone to
believe in Him or pray to Him, but to find the Truth
for themselves and thereby become Enlightened and
Liberated from Ignorance. The Enlightenment of the
Buddha is just that: The Enlightenment of the
Buddha; it is not our Enlightenment. So, too,
with merit; we must acquire our own, not pray or beg
for it, and find our own enlightenment; we shall
remain within Samsara until we do, and no
amount of praying to be saved will release us
therefrom.
Saints—
Arahants and Bodhisattvas—
are rare
today, and not to be found in every temple or
church, and if we expect to find them there, we will
surely be disappointed. And would we be justified in
blaming anyone for that? Could we reasonably blame
monks or priests for not living up to our
expectations and not being saints? Who could we
blame but ourselves, for expecting so much? The
walking of the Way is the most important thing, and
there is no substitute for this, no-one can do it
for us, just like no-one can eat for us. If no seed
is sown, there will be no harvest; if there are no
causes, there will be no effects, and it will be
absolutely useless to complain that the Buddhas or
Bodhisattvas or the monks didn’t save us. View the
monks as teachers of the Way, whether they
themselves follow the Way or not; the most important
thing is that we learn, and Learn, and LEARN. And
when learning is sufficiently important to us, we
will not mind who we learn from.
In school, when we study geography or
history, do we care if the people who teach these
subjects have ever been to the places they talk
about or witnessed the historical events they
describe? And do you suppose that when monks speak
about Buddhas, Arahants, Bodhisattvas, Nirvana,
Heaven, Hell, etc., that they are speaking from
their own personal experience, or from what they
have heard or read elsewhere? Maybe they are
speaking from their own experience, but probably
not. If they are, that still does not make it true
for anyone else; we must experience for ourselves,
and only then will we know. This is why the Buddha
exhorted people not to believe what He said, but to
"Test my teachings, as a goldsmith would test gold".
Someone once told me of a certain famous
monk (the founder of the particular sect of
Vietnamese Buddhism that he followed): "He was an
Arahant—
100% sure!" I asked him how he could be so sure when
he had not even met the monk, and was not an Arahant
himself? To recognize an Arahant as such, a person
would have to be an Arahant himself, would he not?
Arahants—
genuine Arahants and Bodhisattvas, not the
usual fake ones of today, of which there are
not a few— would hardly go around making a show and declaring themselves so.
We might say—
as I say about people like Thich Quang Duc or
Mother Theresa—
that we think such a person is an Arahant or
Bodhisattva. But that would be just our personal
opinion, and have very little to do with
whether a person were actually so or not; our
opinion would not make them so.
Years ago, I addressed a group of
Catholic nuns in a Buddhist temple in Manila; they
were about to go for missionary work in various
countries with large Buddhist populations, and
wanted to know something of Buddhism. During my talk
to them, I quoted from the Christian Bible so as to
emphasize certain points and make comparisons. When
I had finished and it was time for questions, one
nun said: "We heard you quoting from Holy
Scripture", (meaning the Christian scriptures, as if
they are the only scriptures in the world
regarded as ‘holy’); "Are you allowed to do that?" I
replied: "A diamond is a diamond no matter where it
is found". We do not expect to find Truth only in
books, and certainly not only in Buddhist
books. Truth is not limited like that, and if we
understand what the Buddha taught, we will be able
to see the Dharma not only in the scriptures of
other religions, but in everything, everywhere.
Dharma is beyond Name and Form, and without
limits.
Although Mother Theresa was a Catholic
nun herself, she did not care that most of the sick,
destitute and dying people she helped on the streets
of Calcutta were probably Hindus or Muslims; she
didn’t use her compassionate help as a means to
convert them to Catholicism. The idea of doing so
would probably never have entered her head! You see,
the word ‘Catholic’ has two forms, one a noun, and
the other an adjective. When used in its noun-form,
we might say: "Such-and-such a person is a
Catholic", meaning a follower of the Catholic branch
of Christianity. But in its adjective-form, such as
when we might say that a person "has a catholic
point-of-view", it means ‘universal’, ‘liberal’,
‘broad’, ‘wide-open’. I thought of Mother Theresa as
being Catholic in its adjective-form rather than its
noun-form. If people call her a saint (as many do)—
or even a devil!—
would that have changed what she was in any way? Her
compassion and selflessness constituted her
sainthood, and it was hers; to canonize her will be
as superfluous as painting a rose!
Is it not strange that, while Buddhism
teaches that there is no Self—
that a separate, personal ‘self’ or soul is an
illusion—
personality matters so much to many Buddhists? We
are usually more concerned with the personality of
the teacher than with his teachings, and this
becomes a great obstacle. Often, we hear people
criticizing monks, and saying that they like this
monk, but not that one, while usually
disregarding the Dharma altogether. This side
of Enlightenment, we have ego, and because we are
limited thereby, are subject to making mistakes.
However, even though we are still unenlightened,
there is no need for us to be bound up within the
limits of ego and to act in egoistic ways. We can,
if we want, go beyond, by reminding ourselves that
the Dharma should occupy central place in our
dealings with others, and not self.
|
SEEKING HAPPINESS, AVOIDING PAIN |
WE
WOULD THINK IT funny if we saw someone climbing an
apple-tree searching for bananas, would we not? But
this is not as strange as it sounds. Looking for
happiness in places where happiness cannot be found
is stranger and less rational than searching for
bananas up an apple-tree.
Some years ago, I was requested to speak
to the Asian Buddhist students of a certain high
school in Sydney. I observed that they straggled
into class late, were not interested or attentive,
and had lost— or discarded— their traditional Asian manners and respect.
In order to get their attention, I asked
them what they thought people all over the world
wanted or were looking for. Well, because most of
them were refugees from Vietnam or Cambodia, several
of them said "Freedom", but I countered this by
saying that many people have that already and so are
not looking for it; indeed, some people have too
much freedom and don’t know what to do with, so
abuse and destroy it instead of taking care of it
like the treasure it is. This means, of course, that
they are not ready for it; freedom is wasted on
people who do not or will not understand,
appreciate or take care of it; it must be earned,
not given to us, for if we do not strive for it, we
will not value it, and thus, it will easily be
wasted and lost.
Some others said "Money", but, again,
although many people—
maybe we could even say most—
are looking for it, and though money is, without a doubt, the
‘religion’ with the most devotees in the world, not
everyone is looking for it. There are some rare
folks who have money and who are not looking for
more (Bill Gates is not one of them, obviously).
Someone said "Love". Well, you know, even though the
word has been so over-used that it is almost
worn-out, Love—
the quality—
is still something we all need, in one form or
another. The answer I wanted from them was
"Happiness". I asked them: "If you had been happy in
your own country before, would you have fled as
refugees?" "No", "Probably not", came the answers.
"So, you fled your country because you were not
happy there, because life there was too difficult".
I have been to about 40 countries and
have seen that, although there are differences
between people, the basics are the same: Everyone
wants to be happy; no-one wants to be sad or to
suffer. "Therefore", I continued, "happiness must be
something very important, no?" "Yes", they agreed.
"Well, since happiness is very important, do they
teach you about it here in school?" There was a
unanimous cry of "No, never!"
How strange, that something so very
important as happiness is completely neglected in
our schools! Why should this be? Is it because
happiness cannot be taught, but must be earned or
found by the individual himself? Can or should
nothing be said about it? Or has it been shunted
aside as ‘too emotional’, thrown into the trash-can
in favor of the over-emphasis on ‘success’?
Personally, I regard the
education-system, as it stands today, as Public
Enemy Number One, for it inculcates in people many
qualities that the world needs much less of instead
of more, and which lead directly to conflict:
competitiveness, ruthlessness, selfishness, pride,
greed, envy, acquisitiveness, thoughtlessness about
others, etc.
Some people will argue that without
competition, we would not progress, but I would
disagree, for we would probably make better
progress, and with much less conflict, if we learned
how to cooperate with each other for the common
good. And I believe that we can be taught and
shown, from a very early age, how to
cooperate. World War Two— to name the most outstanding of senseless conflicts—
caused the death of 50 million people, and untold
irreparable damage and destruction. But we still
haven’t learned; the Twentieth Century was the
bloodiest of all. And, right now, there are numerous
conflicts of various sizes going on in the world,
and it looks as if we’ll be very lucky to avoid a
Third World War!
With the present education-system— which, in reality, is the ‘American system’ that everyone else
seems to take as their model— are we happy? Far from it! We have turned the world into a jungle
full of wild and savage animals, where it is not
safe to go out on the streets at night—
or even in the daytime!—
in some places! It’s amazing—
is it not?¾ how we can put men on the moon and send
them to the bottom of the ocean, but we cannot teach
our children
— for this is where it must begin— how to live together with others in understanding and peace.
The ways in which we seek happiness are
countless; seeking happiness and trying to avoid
unhappiness, are pursuits that take up a great
proportion of our lives. We may safely generalize
and say that everyone wants to be happy and avoid
pain; we all have this in common. But how many of us
are happy? We are happy sometimes, and some people
are happier than others, but do you know anyone who
is happy all the time? I don’t.
Some people seek happiness in ways that
are harmless to others, while others willingly hurt
others in their efforts to find it; they will kill,
steal, lie, cheat, etc., if they think it will yield
the happiness they seek in their frustration. But
are they happy? A little, perhaps, and briefly, but
when their actions ripen, where is their happiness?
There are many formulas for happiness
that people hold, the most common being Money =
Happiness. "Oh, if only I were rich, I would be
happy", they think. Of course, it would be very
difficult to be happy if one’s family was hungry or
homeless, but riches, in themselves, do not solve
all problems or bring happiness. Many rich people
are very unhappy.
Other formulas go like this: "If I had a
beautiful girlfriend (or handsome boyfriend), I
would be happy". "If I were young again / healthy /
powerful / famous / popular / had many friends,
etc., I would be happy". But can happiness be
formulated? Perhaps it would be better to pause
awhile and ponder on man’s frantic and eternal
search for happiness.
Happiness cannot be sought and found,
for it— and unhappiness, too— are results of the way we live our lives and how we see things. In
fact, the search for happiness is the greatest
obstacle to finding it, though we usually do not see
this until after we have sought for it to the point
of exhaustion.
It has been said that: "Happiness is a
perfume that you cannot sprinkle on others without
getting a few drops on yourself". This is the key:
Forget self and help others, do what is right
according to the situation, and happiness may find
us, though really, this should not be our motive for
helping others. We should do so simply because we
have the opportunity and capacity to do it, and not
for what we think we might get in return, for that
is the same as seeking, and usually results in
disappointment.
Why do we look for happiness? If we were
happy already, if there were no pain and suffering,
there would be no need to look for it! It is because
we are not happy, because we are subject to pain and
suffering, that we search for it.
What is pain? It is a response to
certain causes or conditions; it is the effect of
causes, like everything else, and if we can discover
and understand the causes, we might be able to avoid
the effects we don’t like.
There are two kinds of pain: physical
and mental. We have a body, so naturally, we
experience various bodily pains; though many of
these pains could be avoided if we took better care,
some pains are unavoidable, as it is natural and
inevitable for the body to break down and decay— like any machine— and one day, it will die. This is why Lao Tsu said: "Accept
misfortune as the bodily condition, for without a
body, how could there by misfortune?" Or, as someone
else said recently: "Exercise regularly; eat
moderately; die anyway".
Mental pain, on the other hand, is not
inevitable, as it is possible for us to be in much
greater control of our minds than we are. We cannot
prevent the body from growing older and dying, but
the mind is ours to control, if we will. We need not
suffer from worry, grief, despair or anger; we need
not give way to jealousy, revenge, malice and pride;
our minds need not be filled with greed, hatred and
stupidity. But they often are, aren’t they? And we
suffer so much because of the presence of these
negative and harmful emotions; they cause us pain
even on the physical level, through the mind acting
on the body. What a lot of trouble comes from the
mind!
Now, nobody—
at least, no reasonably-sane person—
likes to suffer. Most people try to avoid pain, most
hate and fear it, but few try to understand it, to
listen to it, to hear what it is saying—
and it does have something to say. Pain is
Nature’s way of telling us that something is wrong—
out of balance—
and needs attention. It is not really the enemy we
think it is, for if we listen to it and learn from
it, it becomes useful, and may be considered a
friend in disguise
—
a teacher— even if its face is ugly. From our own pain, we begin to
understand the pain in others. This gives rise to
Compassion, the greatest virtue, and Compassion is
what compelled the Buddha to go out to show the Way
to those who were ready to see. If we have never
suffered ourselves, it is difficult to sympathize
with others.
Our world is a sad place, though it
often wears a mask to conceal its pain, because to
face the pain constantly would quickly drive us mad.
Sometimes, when we are sensitive, we can feel the
infinite sadness of the world, and if we have no
knowledge of the Law of Cause-and-Effect, we might
easily feel overwhelmed by it. But, knowing that
there are no accidents in the Universe, and that
everything arises from causes, imbues us with a
feeling that we are not impotent, and that
there is something we can do about it.
Again, there are two kinds of suffering:
natural suffering and man-made suffering. As our
knowledge increased over the ages, we have been able
to lessen the suffering caused by Nature. We are
able to predict earthquakes, storms, volcanic
eruptions, etc., and are able to take precautions
against them; we can mitigate the effects of drought
and floods; we have eliminated or controlled many
killer-diseases, and undoubtedly will do so with
many more. Most of the suffering, and all of the
evil in the world, however—
such as war, crime and drug-abuse—
is not natural, but man-made, and it is in this
field that we can— using intelligence and compassion— have the greatest success. And this is perhaps the most important
thing I have to say in this book: Each and
everyone of us has the capacity to increase of
decrease the suffering in the world. And the
same can be said about happiness. We might not have
much of an impact, but we can do our share, and
every little bit helps. It’s our world. Won’t you
join us?
WE
LABOR AND STAGGER ALONG under the burdens of our
sins and mistakes, not knowing how to put them down.
We’ve all made mistakes, done things we shouldn’t
have done, and not done things we should have done.
Because of this, regret and remorse follow us like
shadows, from the past, to, and through, the
present. Although we should feel remorse for
our mistakes, life must go on, we must continue on
our way, for we cannot live in the past, and
attempts to do so only tear us apart. How can we put
down the burdens of the past and go forward with
lighter hearts?
Many people believe that sin must be
forgiven by a ‘God-who-made-everything’; others
believe we must be saved by some ‘superman’,
otherwise we will go to Hell forever. Others see
these things, these beliefs, as psychological
techniques, from which we may gain the strength to
bear our responsibilities, accept the consequences
of our deeds, and go on living. They are valid as
long as they remain techniques, for without them,
many would find life too hard to bear, and there
would be a much-higher suicide-rate than there is.
But when a technique isn’t understood as such, and
becomes an article of belief, an indispensable
dogma, it is a fetter, instead of a means of
support. This is why new techniques must constantly
be devised, before the old ones become rigid and
lifeless.
It seems quite clear that the practice
of Confession in Catholicism was adopted, in the
early Christian era, from Buddhism, along with other
things; however, it became a dogma in Catholicism,
and very few people understand the real meaning.
Most Catholics believe that when they confess their
sins before the priest, who admonishes them and
perhaps allots some penance to perform, that that
is the end of it, and they may start again with
a clean slate. Protestants—
who also do not understand clearly about Confession— ridicule Catholics for this; in fact, one of the things that
caused Martin Luther—
one of the main founders of the Protestant branch of
Christianity—
to break with the Church of Rome, was the priestly
practice of selling certificates-of-forgiveness,
known as ‘Indulgences’. Perhaps he was not
against the certificates as such, but against the
lucrative business they constituted; the rich could
afford to have their sins ‘absolved’ in this way,
while the poor could not. The priests claimed that,
as the ‘representatives of God’, they had the power
and right to forgive sins—
for a price, of course.
How can we buy off the effects of our
sins? No amount of money can do this. But to confess
our sins and mistakes to another person is the first
step of coming to grips with them, so that
eventually, by doing as little evil, and as much
good as possible, we may overcome them.
Buddhism teaches that we are punished
by our sins, not for them, as do other
religions; if we sow the seeds, and if they
germinate and grow, we get the results, not
someone else. Buddhists don’t believe there is a
‘God’ or anyone or anything else to reward or punish
us; when we are free of such beliefs we can do
something about our own lives, and be more in
control of the way we live.
Therefore, to whom, or to what, do
Buddhists pray? Certainly, we pray to no ‘God’, and
neither should we pray to the Buddha, as He never
asked people to do that, and in fact, warned against
it, telling people to follow the Dharma instead, and
thereby find their own enlightenment. The Buddha
never claimed to be a savior of any kind; it is the
Dharma, the Truth, which saves and liberates us, not
the Buddha, or anyone else. When we understand this,
we immediately avoid the trap of personalizing
things, which is a trap that catches many of us.
But many people do pray to the
Buddha, do they not? Yes, it appears they do. But,
though this might not be correct, and might impede
progress on the Way, it is not necessarily bad. You
see, many people have no-one in whom they can
confide and tell their troubles to. Very few people
have what is known, in Buddhist terminology, as a
‘good friend’ (kalyana mitta, in Pali
language), someone who will listen sympathetically
without condemning, who will help and give
constructive advice or criticism when necessary.
Without such friends, they keep their feelings and
problems bottled up inside, afraid, unable, or
unwilling to express them to anyone. Like this,
their problems go around and around inside them,
causing so much tension and misery, and often
growing bigger and stronger, until, somehow, they
find ways of ‘getting out’.
Often, if we cannot release or express
our problems ourselves, they accumulate and increase
in strength until, suddenly and uncontrollably, they
burst out like a volcano exploding, and can be very
destructive. We need to find ways to release our
problems so that their potential for causing damage
is minimized. Therefore, although it is not really
correct to pray to the Buddha in a symbol, such as a
picture or an image, it can act as a way of
releasing the tensions of accumulated worries and
problems. In this way, as a technique, it can be
good. We should not worry about others criticizing
us or accusing us of ‘worshipping idols’, because
most of them are guilty of doing that which they
accuse us of; Christians pray to ‘God’, which is
just their own mental creation or projection, for
although they claim that "God created Man in his own
image", it is actually the other way around: Man
created God in his own image, due to his hopes,
fears, and wishful thinking!
In some cases, however, we must admit
that this accusation is justified: some
Buddhists do worship the images and talk to
them as superior beings, and pray to and beseech
them for help and favors, etc. But if people
understood what the Buddha taught, they would not
worship the images; the images and icons are merely
symbols on which to focus our attention, to help
raise our consciousness to higher levels.
No-one knows what the Buddha looked
like. The books say that His body had a number of
special marks on it, but I suspect that these marks
were visible only to people who had developed
certain psychic powers such as clairvoyance—
that is, the ability to see things that people
without such powers are unable to see, like ghosts.
In the scriptures, there are cases of people meeting
the Buddha and not recognizing Him. Surely, if His
special marks—
such as the protuberance on the crown of his head,
His long ears, and the halo around His head—
had been visible to everyone, He would have been
widely known by reputation of these things, and
anyone meeting Him would have recognized Him
immediately!
In 326 BCE—
more than 200 years after the Buddha passed away— Alexander the Great led his armies down through the
mountain-passes of what is now Afghanistan to the
plains of India. Undefeated until then, he was
halted at the River Beas by the forces of Emperor
Chandragupta—
Ashoka’s grandfather—
and could go no further. Alexander died in Persia on
his way back to Greece, but some of his troops
remained and settled in N.W. India, and established
kingdoms there. Being philosophically and
artistically inclined, the Greeks were very
impressed with the teachings of the Buddha that they
encountered in India, and embracing them, were the
first to carve images of Him, in the likeness of
their Sun-god, Apollo, who represented Light and
Reason. Many of these graceful early images remain
till now, housed in various museums.
There are many styles of Buddha-images:
Indian images, Chinese images, Tibetan images, etc.;
we can even see painted Buddha-images with blue eyes
and brown hair now, looking like Anglo-Saxons! But
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