The
Yin-Yang is an ancient Chinese symbol of balance, of
Harmony, of the Union of the Pairs of Opposites.
Lao
Tsu, in the Tao Te Ching, wrote: “Under Heaven, all
can see beauty as beauty only because there is
ugliness; all can know good as good only because
there is evil. Therefore, having and not-having
arise together; difficult and easy complement each
other; long and short contrast each other; high and
low rest upon each other.”
BLACK-WHITE
The
Yin-Yang is an ancient Chinese symbol of balance, of
Harmony, of the Union of the Pairs of Opposites.
Lao
Tsu, in the Tao Te Ching, wrote: "Under
Heaven, all can see beauty as beauty only because
there is ugliness; all can know good as good only
because there is evil. Therefore, having and
not-having arise together; difficult and easy
complement each other; long and short contrast each
other; high and low rest upon each other."
We
can know white only because we know black, and when
we know both black and white, wrong and right, . . .
then we might see beyond them.
An
old English proverb says the same thing: "Every
cloud has a silver lining, and can cheer us up and
encourage us when everything seems bleak.
Of
course, to benefit from such handed-down wisdom
requires application of it on our part; merely to
repeat it, parrot-fashion, will have little effect.
And
successful application of it could cause even a
blind person to say: "Oh, yes! I see!"
In the black,
there is some
white;
In the wrong,
there is some
right;
In the dark,
there is some
light;
In the blind,
There is some
sight.
BONUS
There
must be, somewhere in the mind, a cut-out switch to
prevent over-load and burn-out, otherwise the pains
and problems of life would soon drive us insane.
This
cushioning mechanism, however, is sometimes
over-protective, and, while helping us overcome
sorrow and hardship, and enable us to carry on, it
also lets us forget too easily, and so learn little
from it all.
This
causes us to treat life lightly, and expect it to be
always there. Daily, we see on TV the road
fatalities, the mass-death of people in earthquakes,
mine-disasters, floods, industrial accidents,
plane-crashes, ethnic rioting, bloody revolutions,
wars and so on, and gradually, we become inured to
it all; it loses its ability to shock or disturb us.
It might be happening to others, but we don’t
imagine it could happen to us; somehow, we feel
exempt from all that.
And so,
we are often caught unawares.
Life,
day-by-day,
is a bonus,
not a right,
and should not
be taken for
granted.
CHAIN
Society consists of
individuals; no-one lives alone, by and for himself,
independent of the rest, but is connected, by
threads seen and unseen, to all the other parts.
Between the parts, however, are differences in as
many areas as we can think of: physically, mentally,
economically, culturally, racially, and so on.
Throughout
history, attempts have been made to create
‘classless societies’, in which everyone would be
equal, but it wasn’t long before some people became
‘more equal’ than others, and then they were back
where they started, or worse!
Equality is an
idea, not a fact; Nature knows nothing of it, but
brings forth things in variety and difference; in
fact, everything— from largest to smallest—is
unique. To talk of ‘equality of the sexes’, for
example, is a logical absurdity; male and female are
different and complement each other; they can never
be equal. There are rich because there are poor, and
vice-versa; there is good because there is bad, high
because there is low, this because of that, you
because of me, etc. And if we are to overcome the
problems facing us, we must first see how things
depend upon other things.
When Jesus was
criticized for fraternizing with ‘publicans and
sinners’, he responded: "Those who are healthy need
not a physician, but those who are sick’. We cannot
turn our backs on the problems of society, saying
that it’s not our business; we are society,
whether we like it or not, and if society’s boat
sinks, we will sink with it!
A chain is only as strong as its weakest link.
CHEAT
How strange: the
harsh words of, and injuries done to us by others,
we store up and reflect upon, like treasures,
instead of letting them go and thinking of better
things. The harmful acts of others are useful to us,
and worth recalling, only insofar as we might learn
something from them that might help us to avoid
doing the same things to others. If we brood on
them, with resentment, nothing good will come of it,
and we will only make ourselves feel worse; what is
the use of such self-inflicted suffering?
In the
Dharmapada, verses 3 and 4, we find:
"He abused me,
he beat me, he defeated me, he robbed me". In those
who harbor such thoughts, hatred is never appeased.
"He abused me,
he beat me, he defeated me, he robbed me". In those
who harbor not such thoughts, hatred is appeased.
Tell yourself this:
It is better to be cheated than to cheat.
CONTENTS
If
the external aspects of Religion are not as they
might once have been, don’t get upset, but consider
it to be natural; whatever has a beginning grows,
flourishes for a while, then decays and dies. Why
should Religion be an exception?
Instead
of complaining so much about the representatives of
Religion or its state of decay, try to discover the
purpose of Religion, and how it might still be of
use to you. What is on the outside is not always
indicative of what is on the inside.
The Container
is not the
Contents;
Buddhism is not
Buddha-Dharma,
and Buddha-Dharma
is not Dharma,
but only an
indicator.
Look deeper!
DO GOOD
These
days, in our temples and churches, it is quite
common for people to try to ‘buy’ merit, not aware
that merit cannot be bought or sold, but must be
earned in other ways.
Once,
while Jesus was with his disciples in the Temple,
they observed rich people donating large sums of
money; they also saw a poor widow donate two small
coins, and Jesus said: "I tell you truly, this
widow, although poor, has given more than all the
others, for they all gave out of their surplus,
while she gave all she had."
In
those days, there was no such thing as Social
Security for the aged and disabled, and life was
hard; people had to pay their way, and the
necessities of life were sold and bought then as
now. Religion was a thing of commerce in those days,
too, and the priests exhorted people to make
offerings to the Temple and accumulate merit
thereby. Now, this widow surely knew that her coins
were of little value in the market; did she think
they would have more value in the Temple? Jesus said
nothing about the motive behind her offering. If
she’d had only—let us say—
$20 to her name, and had offered half, or even a
quarter of it, it would have been a real sacrifice
for her; but to offer something that was of no use
anyway, would have been no sacrifice at all!
When
we give something, it should be of value to us, and
not something that we don’t need or want any longer.
Do good, not for
what you might
get
as a result, but
because you have
the
opportunity
and capacity, and
because
you love life.
DO THE WORK
We
dream of doing ‘great’ deeds in the future, but
often fail to see the many ‘small’ things that could
be done in the present; thus, life slips by, and the
opportunities to do ‘great’ deeds might never come
our way, or if they do, we might not be able to use
them because we did not prepare ourselves by doing
what was within our capacity when it
was, but which we perhaps thought was unworthy of
our attention or beneath our dignity.
In
the Tao Te Ching (chapter 63), we find: "In
the Universe, great acts are made up of small
deeds." And Jesus is reported to have said—in
Luke 16:10—"He
who is faithful in what is least is faithful also in
much."
Some
of us look down upon certain kinds of work, but the
lowliest form of work can be ennobled if we know how
to do it, for it is we who designate things as
‘great’, ‘small’, ‘important’, ‘unimportant’, and so
on, is it not? If we take care of ‘small’ things, we
shall probably be able to deal with ‘great’ things,
too. But if we are careless with small things, we
probably shall be no more careful with great things!
"Do the work
that’s needed—
Though it’s dull
at whiles—
Helping when you
meet them,
Lame dogs over
stiles."
Ella Wheeler
Willcox: THE LAW.
EASY PROMISES
How
lightly we give our word and make promises,
oblivious of the fact that the future is not ours to
see! If promises are made at all, they should be
made conditionally, with an ‘if’ or ‘providing
that’, for we cannot possibly compute or imagine all
the things that might happen between now and then
that could prevent us keeping the promise; moreover,
we must be sure of our capacity and intention to do
what we say we will do.
Though
we do, and must, make plans for the future, the
uncertainty and changefulness of life means that
they can only be tentative, and we should therefore
sit loosely in the saddle, aware of the dangers and
pains of attachment and inflexibility. We can live
neither in the future nor in the past, no matter how
hard we try; the only time we can live is NOW. J. of
N. said: "Take no thought for tomorrow, for tomorrow
can take thought for the things of itself.
Sufficient to the day is the evil [or problems]
thereof". Good advice, yes, but it must be
understood clearly, for if everyone followed it
literally, we would soon be in trouble; nobody would
plant crops of any kind, build houses, or do work
that had no immediate fruit. The NOW grows out of
everything that went before it; we must know the
nature of what we are doing, and also the possible
consequences thereof. "We are the results of what we
were; we will be the results of what we are", said
the Buddha.
"Easy promises make for little trust".
Tao Te Ching.
GODS & GHOSTS
Mars,
Jupiter, Saturn, Zeus, Apollo, Poseidon, Isis, Ra,
Osiris, Wotan, Thor, and Freya are just some of the
gods of the ancient world; people used to worship
and pray to them then as people worship and pray to
their gods today. Were they any less real? What
happened to them? Did they die off and cease to
exist with their worshippers? Were they
pensioned-off to other planets? Or were they,
perhaps, mental creations of their worshippers,
fulfilling a psychological need? If so, then they
had no objective existence at all.
One
religion claims that God said: "Let us make man in
our image, according to our likeness" (Genesis 1:26,
of the Bible); but maybe it was the other way
around: that man has created God in his
image. This is known as anthropomorphism,
that is, ‘with human form’. People endowed the
supernatural—or what they thought of as such, because they didn’t understand the
forces or laws of Nature—with
human attributes, such as form, and emotions such as
love, hate, anger, jealousy, favoritism, etc., and
then proceeded to worship it. They attempted to put
a limit on the Limitless, but only succeeded in
limiting themselves thereby. So now they are stuck
with a human-like God of their own making,
necessitating further fantastic mental gymnastics in
order to make facts fit the concept.
How wonderful—
even with our
advanced
technology,
we cannot create such a thing as
an ant or a blade of
grass,
but gods and
ghosts we mass-produce!
HUNTING
The
Buddha taught people to consider others as
themselves, and themselves as others, meaning not
only human beings, but all living things. If we
understood ourselves better—our
likes and dislikes, hopes, fears, and other feelings—we
would understand others better, too, and would know
how to behave in our relationships with them,
without needing to be told. We do not like to
suffer, do we? Well, neither do others; they
are just like us in this respect.
What
we need to do is to listen to ourselves, and feel
our pain, instead of depending so much upon others
to teach us; deep inside us, we already know.
Hunting and
fishing is sport
to some,
but death to
the animals
and fish.
IMAGE
Throughout this
book, apart from my own thoughts, I have quoted
words of several great Masters, and now, although I
do not consider him one, I want to mention John
Lennon, from whose words, if not from his example, I
got something. If nothing else, he was a spokesman
for his generation, and wisdom can be found in some
of his songs. In Strawberry Fields Forever, for
example, he sang: "Living is easy with eyes closed,
misunderstanding all you see". Yes, it seems easier
to live when we are ignorant and feel no sense of
responsibility, to just let ourselves be carried
along by the stream, not knowing, and maybe not
caring much, where it is taking us. But when our
eyes are open, and we become aware of how we share
this Earth with countless others, a sense of
responsibility dawns, and we can no longer live
negligently or carelessly; living then becomes
harder than previously, because we now have a sense
of direction in life.
I
am not such a starry-eyed idealist as to think that
the conditions in his utopian song, Imagine,
can ever become realities, but I do think that,
individually, we can work towards some of them,
pulling down artificial barriers that have been
erected in our minds by others since before we could
think and reason for ourselves; it is possible to
overcome the false information that we were
impregnated with as children; we can discover
what is true!
IMAGINE
Imagine there’s
no Heaven—
It’s easy if you try—
No Hell below us—
Above us only sky;
Imagine all the people
Living for today ...
Imagine there’s
no country—
It isn’t hard to do—
Nothing to kill
or die for—
And no religion, too;
Imagine all the people
Living life in peace ...
Imagine no
possessions—
I wonder if you can?
No need for greed or hunger—
A brotherhood of man.
Imagine all the people
Sharing all the world ...
You may say that
I’m a dreamer,
But I’m not the only one;
I hope someday you’ll join us,
And the World will be as One.
John Lennon.
JIG-SAW
Most
religions claim exclusive possession of Spiritual
Truth, some doing so covertly, while others openly
and shamelessly, obviously unaware of the
preposterous nature of their claims. Imagining that
Truth can be possessed is rather like a person
standing on a river-bank thinking he might catch the
river in a fishing-net!
Truth
flows. We cannot catch or possess it; nor can it be
transmitted from one to another, but must be
experienced by the individual, each for himself. At
most, it can be intimated, hinted at, referred to
obliquely by analogy. And, since no religion has the
monopoly of Truth, there is no good reason why we
should confine our inquiries to one specific
religion, for by doing so, we narrow ourselves and
become prisoners of our own prejudice. If there is
Truth, it must be something omnipresent and in
everything; as such, it is ordinary, and not
‘special’ or ‘holy’.
The
Way is long and the search is hard; we need all the
help we can get. If, as we fare along, we stumble
upon a crumb of Truth, it would be foolish to
disregard it merely because it might not be of our
favorite color or labeled in our own language. A
diamond is a diamond no matter where it is found.
Life is like a
jig-saw puzzle,
of which no-one
has all the pieces.
Slowly, and from
many sources,
we manage to get
an idea of the picture.
LCD
Anyone
who follows a religion naturally thinks his religion
is the best, otherwise he wouldn’t follow it but
would turn to another. But how many people have
really investigated and understood their
religion—instead of merely inheriting it from
others—so that they are able to compare it with
other religions, and can therefore say they have
chosen their religion intelligently? Very, very few,
it can be safely said. Most people have no basis for
thinking and saying that their religion is the best;
they just make unqualified statements and build
castles in the clouds. Thus, it is not surprising
that, even today, religion is largely a thing of
dogma and superstition.
If
religion is not to become an anachronism, it must be
firmly based on fact, and, since it concerns our
relationships with others, we must see beyond the
differences between us and focus on the obvious
similarities, things about which we cannot disagree.
If we do not, or will not, then religious
conflicts will always be with us—often about things
no less stupid than the war described in the story
of Gulliver’s Travels between those who
opened boiled-eggs at the big end—the
‘Big-Endians’—and those who opened them at the
small end—the ‘Little-Endians’!
All living things are united by the Lowest Common
Denominators of
Birth, Aging, Sickness and
Death.
Is there not,
therefore, a firm
foundation for cooperation and
peace?
LEARN
We
often hear people saying of some famous monk or
spiritual leader: "Lama So-and-So / Guru
This-and-That is my Teacher!" Ask them what they
have learned from these teachers, however, and there
is sometimes an embarrassed silence.
People
flock from far and wide to see a monk who is reputed
to have psychic powers—not in order to learn
something from him, but just to see something
extraordinary and be entertained. Thus, they are
easily misled by the numerous cheats and charlatans
masquerading as ‘Living Buddhas’ or ‘Enlightened
Ones’.
A
person might have someone enlightened
as his teacher, but that is no guarantee that he
will learn anything. In the Dharmapada, verses
64/65, we find the Buddha’s words about this:
"Though a fool throughout his life associates with a
wise man, he no more understands the Dharma than a
spoon tastes the flavor of soup. Though an
intelligent person associates with a wise man for
only a moment, he quickly understands the Dharma, as
the tongue tastes the flavor of soup".
The
Buddha had no teacher to show Him the way to
Enlightenment, but discovered it Himself. This is
not to say that we should abandon teachers and
depend solely upon ourselves, but that, instead of
always waiting for a teacher to teach us everything,
we should strive to learn for ourselves, and in this
way, make ourselves ready to receive instructions
and help.
It is better to learn than to be taught.
LIFE IS FRAGILE
If
life really belonged to us, we could say: "I’m not
going to grow old, get sick, or die". Well, we can
say that; it’s easy, but it happens to us anyway.
And we cannot even count on growing old; no-one
knows his span of days.
Once,
while working on a tall stool, I stepped backwards
to get down, but missed my footing and fell, unable
to control my fall. The back of my head struck with
a loud crack on the floor, and I lay there, thinking
I was dead. But then I opened my eyes and ……
wonderful! I was still alive!
We
don’t have to try to die; it happens to us
naturally, and sometimes suddenly and without
warning.
Life is fragile,
and trembles
in the balance,
like a dewdrop
on a lotus-leaf.
LIFE IS PRECIOUS
Although
the life expectancy in most countries today is now
longer than it ever was before, there is no place on
Earth where people do not die.
In
the U.S.A., some wealthy people try to beat death by
having themselves deep-frozen immediately they die,
in the hope that, sometime in the future, when/if a
cure for the disease that killed them is found, they
might be revived and live again.
Attachment
to life is so strong that it brings people to such
measures. But it is nothing new; in fact, it has
gone on throughout recorded history, and the best
example of it is in the pyramids of Egypt, built as
tombs by Pharoahs in the hope of immortality.
Although we are still unsure of the methods of their
construction, it is generally supposed they were
built using slave-labor, involving tremendous
suffering and loss of life. The suffering has gone
now, while the pyramids remain. We can see the
desiccated mummies of the Pharoahs; is that
their immortality?
To
them, the end—even if was a dubious end, lacking
substantiation, as with most systems of belief—was
all-important; they disregarded the means. What did
it matter if thousands suffered and died in the
construction, as long as the end was achieved? From
this, it is clear that, though they have left us
wonderful monuments, the ancient Egyptians did not
have much of a system of ethics, and no concept at
all of human rights. Yet life to a slave was as dear
as it was to a Pharoah.
Life is a
precious commodity that diminishes
day-by-day.
Take care to
spend it wisely.
LOOK-SEE
To
look for something, first we must know what we are
looking for, for if we don’t know, how shall we be
able to recognize it if and when we find it? We talk
of searching for Truth, God, Peace, Happiness, etc.,
but do we know what these things are? It is rather
like a person who goes to the beach to search for
pearls, but never having seen a pearl, he goes with
the idea that a pearl is something red and cubical.
So, while peering in the rock-pools, opening shells,
overturning stones, and so on, maybe he sees a
small, round, white object gleaming there in the
sand, but he thinks: "That’s not a pearl; the pearl
I am looking for is red and cubical". So he passes
on and continues searching. And he might indeed come
across a red and cubical object, but it will not be
a pearl.
Looking
is active, something we do, while seeing is passive
and receptive, something that happens. We look with
the accumulations of the past, that is, with our
conditioning, and this prevents us from seeing. And
yet it is necessary to search, for if we do not
search, how shall we be able to stop searching, and
SEE?
We look,
but we do not see.
We see
when we do not look.
LOVE
As long as we are
alive we shall have likes and dislikes, and
frequently, will not be able to explain them. Our
preferences often get out of control and carry us
away, and are then capable of causing a lot of
trouble.
If, however,
we are aware of our feelings, of their limitations,
and of their capacity to cause trouble, we can be
more in control of them, and though we might still
dislike certain people and things, it will be
possible to go beyond our preferences, and this is a
liberation, of course. We can love people we don’t
like, because:
Love doesn’t
choose,
but embraces all equally, impartially.
It has nor
subject,
and no object, no center, and no circumference.
MAKE OF IT
Most
religions claim to have the answers to the problems
of life and to know its purpose, but often, their
concepts differ and sometimes contradict and
conflict with each other. What can we do about this?
Must
we, like people through the ages have done, and as
many people still do, polarize ourselves by adopting
a partisan view? Why should we accept anything
pertaining to our lives, when we have the freedom
and opportunity to investigate things critically?
Having come this far, why should we be content with
half-measures? Let’s put the sacred cows out to
pasture, and pull the skeletons out of the closets,
to make room for cleaner and better things.
Life
does not infuse our bodies for long; we should
therefore use it while we can, and not waste it.
Others might tell us their purpose in life,
but can anyone tell us the purpose of life,
so that we will understand it clearly and accept it
immediately as self-evident and true? So far, no-one
has succeeded in doing so. And why not? Well …..
Life in this
world is what we make of it;
it has no meaning
other than what
we give it.
MEANS
It’s too hot!",
"It’s too cold!"; "I’m busy", "Not free". Our
capacity for creating excuses is unlimited. We often
put things off until tomorrow, instead of doing them
while they are fresh in mind and when it would be
easier to do them. The old proverb: "A stitch in
time saves nine’, is still true; for those who might
not understand its meaning, it means, literally,
that a small tear in a garment might be easily
mended when first noticed, but if postponed, it
might get worse, until it requires much work to
repair it.
Letter-writing
is another example: Upon receiving a letter from a
friend, many people put off replying until later,
but other things come to mind, and the reply is
forgotten. Later—often much later—it again comes to
mind to answer the letter, but it entails
apologizing and making excuses, which are often
untrue and insincere. If, however, we cultivated a
habit—and it is a habit, just like leaving things
‘until later’ is a habit—of replying promptly to
letters, we would find it much easier than we think
it is, and it need not require much time, either.
Many of us
complain about how hectic life is, and of how little
time they have. Again, it is a matter of knowing how
to budget and manage one’s time. Instead of allowing
others to dictate to us how to live our lives,
should we not decide for ourselves what, within
reason, we want to do? It is not, as many people
say, that "Time is Money". Time is more important
than money. Time is Life!
"Those who want
to do something
find a means;
those who don’t
want to do anything
find an excuse".
Arabic proverb
MEDITATION
Not knowing that
the mind is a mechanical thing that follows the law
of Cause-and-Effect—each thought arising from the
previous one in chain-like succession, coming and
going like the bubbles in a glass of Coke—many
meditators struggle with their thoughts and become
exhausted therefrom, thinking that a mind free of
thought is the object of meditation.
Though the mind
might become still and free of thought, it is not
within our capacity to make it so, because we are
the thinker. If we were to sit down and say to
ourselves: "Now I’m going to stop thinking", that
would be just another thought, would it not? By no
act of will can we stop our thoughts coming and
going. We shouldn’t be upset by this, however,
shouldn’t despair, as it is natural, and this is
what we can learn from it, so that the conflict with
our thoughts may cease. Thought, like everything
else, is Impermanent.
In meditation,
let your thoughts
come and go,
like birds that
fly
through the sky,
leaving no trace
…
MIND
Everything that Man
has made began as an idea in someone’s mind. The
world is made up of ideas, many of them wrong and
silly, and it is from such ideas that most of our
suffering flows.
If we treat
only the symptoms but leave untouched the underlying
causes of suffering, our efforts will, at most, have
palliative effects. The causes must be discovered
and dealt with, so that the symptoms can no longer
arise.
Our problems
originate mainly in the mind, through wrong or
incomplete understanding. It is not because we are
sinful or evil that we perform bad or antisocial
deeds, but more because we are blind and stupid and
do not see our place in life, do not understand how
much we depend upon others in so many ways.
Not long ago,
on a bus, I heard two mindless twits talking loudly
and denigratingly about Japanese people, and I
wondered if they had ever stopped to think about who
had made their watches, TV’s, cars, videos,
cassette-players, and so on. We cannot do without
other people, and could not count how many people
work for us every day so that we can live as we do.
If we understood this, it would certainly modify and
improve the way we think about others.
Just as
darkness can be overcome only by light, so Ignorance
can only be overcome by Knowledge. If we know the
causes of suffering, it is possible to do something
about it.
The Mind …
has no walls,
no door,
no ceiling,
no floor,
except those
which,
in our ignorance,
we create.
MISFORTUNE
Who can live
without losing something at one time or another?
Everything we have will one day be lost. Who can go
through life without getting sick with this or that?
It is a constant struggle to remain healthy.
We feed and
clothe our bodies, house and transport them
conveniently and comfortably, but alas, they are
ungrateful and unreliable, and let us down. To
expect too much from life is to invite
disappointment.
While we
should take care of what we’ve got, we should also
fortify ourselves with knowledge and understanding
of the nature of life: how it changes, comes and
goes; we cannot possess it, and it is therefore, not
really ours at all.
"Accept
misfortune as the bodily condition.
Why?
Because without a body,
how could there be misfortune?
NEW LAND
It is a
mistake to say, as some of us do at times: "My life
is so boring; nothing interesting ever happens to
me!" It probably means that we are functioning like
robots, on automatic pilot, or going around with our
eyes closed. Our lives are full to the brim with
miracles! How can we say that life is boring?
One of the
major causes of boredom is that we have been
over-stimulated by television and movies for so long
that our senses have almost been burned-out thereby,
and it takes an ever-stronger dose to interest us.
The world-wide phenomenon of drug-use is just
another form of this. And so we become spaced-out in
fantasyland, and sometimes unable to relate to the
‘real’ world.
If we wake up
with the idea that the day ahead is going to be
‘just another day’, our minds will be already
programmed, leaving no room for the unexpected; it
is the wrong way to begin the day.
It is not as
we think, that life is boring, but that we are
bored. Life is always new, and never repeats itself.
Just get your feet on the ground, become aware of
yourself as the living miracle you are, and of the
wonderful world you live in, and your boredom will
soon disappear.
Today is like
a new land
where no-one’s
been before,
full of things
to learn about,
enjoy, discover,
explore.
NO
LIMITS
There is
tremendous suffering in the world, but since nothing
comes from nothing—that is, everything has causes—it
cannot be accidental.
Most of our
suffering is man-made—either by others or by
ourselves—and so is avoidable. It is not because we
are inherently bad or sinful (as some religions
claim), that we cause suffering to others, and
ultimately to ourselves, but because we lack
understanding of how we live in dependence upon
others, and how we cannot live otherwise. And why do
we not understand this? Largely because we are not
educated properly; and, lacking such understanding,
we are like a man who sits astride the bough of a
tree and begins to saw through it between himself
and the trunk: when the bough falls, he also falls
with it. Could he be called ‘sinful’, or merely
‘stupid’?
It is not
surprising that there is so much suffering when
there is so much of its cause. Where there are
causes, there will be effects; to prevent the
effects, the causes must be avoided. Knowing the
causes is the first step of doing this. Those who
have ever removed weeds from a garden will know that
to prevent them from growing back again, the roots
must be pulled up; merely to cut them off above
ground would leave them to spring up again within
the next few days; such is the resilience of weeds.
Two things,
said the Buddha
have no limits:
Space,
And
Human stupidity.
OPPORTUNITIES
Buddhism
is sometimes accused of being pessimistic because it
speaks so much about suffering, but it shrugs off
such criticism with a smile, and asks: "What do
you say?"
Around
1880, Sir Edwin Arnold wrote an account of the
Buddha’s life in poem-form, entitled, The Light
of Asia. Here is a verse from it:
Ask of
the sick, the mourners, ask of him
Who
tottereth on his staff, lone and forlorn:
"Liketh
thee life?"—these
say the babe is wise
That
weepeth, being born.
Who
can say there is more happiness and enjoyment in
life than pain and sorrow—or even as much? We
have only to look around us, at the overflowing
hospitals, Homes for the Aged, Asylums for the
insane, deformed, mentally-retarded, at the
unspeakable horrors of war, and man’s inhumanity to
man, etc., to realize that Hell is not a myth.
In
spite of the suffering that always accompanies life,
however, human beings—unlike other
animals, which live by instinct—have developed and made progress.
Indeed, had it not been for the suffering to impel
and motivate us, coupled with our ability to
criticize, visualize, imagine and assess, we might
still be living in caves!
Life is
suffering,
it is true,
but it also
provides us with
opportunities to
learn.
PLAY
Between the
apathetic and defeatist view of Fatalism— whereby
people believe everything is determined before it
happens, and that nothing we can do will make any
difference—and the equally-erroneous view that
everything happens by Accident or Chance, lies one
based upon the Law of Cause-and-Effect. The present
has arisen out of past causes, and the future arises
from a combination of both past and present causes,
although when it arises, of course, it will not be
the future, but the present.
The present is
open, and the future not fixed; we are in the
process of creating it. The Greenhouse Effect is
largely the result of human activity; the rest of
Nature cannot be blamed for that. Likewise, the good
things of our civilization have been brought about
by people; they did not just happen by themselves.
So, though there
are reasons to be proud of being human, we must also
accept responsibility for our personal and
collective mistakes; there is nothing and no-one
else to blame.
Life is like a
play
in which we are
all actors;
but the script is written as we
act,
not before,
and nobody knows what will happen next.
QUESTION
Often, when we
ask a question, we already have an answer in mind,
partly formed, at least. And so, if the answer from
outside does not concur with our preconceptions, we
are reluctant to accept it; the mind is very good at
rationalization, at finding reasons to dismiss
something as ‘incorrect’, ‘unsuitable’, or as ‘not
feeling right’. This is not to say, of course, that
answers from others are always better than our own;
to suppose that would mean being prejudiced in the
other direction, would it not?
Many of us ask
questions just for the sake of it, without real
interest or desire to learn, and pay no attention to
the answers. Needless to say, this is a waste of
time.
If we would
spend more time quietly thinking things over instead
of just scratching the surface, more time in trying
to formulate and express our questions clearly
instead of just blurting them out, we would learn
much more. The answers are not always outside of
ourselves.
If you know how to ask
your question,
you will find the answer therein.
RADIO
There are
times when all of us feel sad, bored, lost, lonely
or depressed. What happens then? Well, think back
awhile: they passed, didn’t they? They passed,
because the basic Law of Life is Change; nothing
lasts, but changes into something else, and, while
it must be admitted that things sometimes change for
the worse, at other times, they get better; but
nothing remains the same—just
like the patterns in a kaleidoscope.
Now, this is
very simple but very effective philosophy to keep in
mind. When you next feel sad, bored, depressed,
lonely, etc., tell yourself: "It will pass", and
sure enough, it does, though not always as fast as
we would like, of course. Often, it passes so softly
and subtly that we don’t realize, until later, that
it’s gone, because it has changed into something
pleasant. When this happens, however, we must tell
ourselves the same thing: "It will pass", so that we
are not too disappointed when it does.
But, if you
don’t want to wait for things to change at their own
pace, do something about it, instead of being sad
about being sad.
The Mind is
like a radio,
with many
stations;
if you do not
like to listen to one
station, change
to another;
it is within your
capacity.
REFUGEES
Among
other things, the 20th century will be
known as the bloodiest century of them all so far,
and there is no end in sight to the carnage and
warfare that bedevil us. How come we have learned so
little from our suffering and pain? In some ways, we
are very intelligent; we are creative and
imaginative, but in others we are very stupid and
wasteful, and can destroy, very quickly, what it has
taken us so long to build up.
It
will also be known as the century of the Refugee. We
have witnessed the phenomenon of the international
refugee on an unprecedented scale, as people fled
their homes and countries in search of peace,
freedom and happiness, which they felt were
unattainable where they lived. The consequent
intermingling of people of diverse races, cultures
and religions, coupled with the ease of travel
today, has caused the World to shrink considerably;
we are no longer shut off from each other by
national boundaries, and hopefully, we are moving
towards the time when people will consider
themselves as members of the human race, instead of
the many categories that they insist on dividing
themselves up into.
The
global Environmental Crisis we are involved in
recognizes no frontiers, checkpoints or passports,
and concerns everyone. Slowly, we are coming to
realize that the Earth, and everything on it, is
endangered. Whether we shall be able to halt, or
even to slow down the destructive and destabilizing
processes we have started, only time will tell, but
we can never hope to succeed without cooperating on
a world-wide scale.
This
Crisis, if it awakens us to the necessity of
overlooking the differences between us and
cooperating, could have some very positive effects.
Is not this
Planet Earth
like a tiny boat,
adrift on the
open sea of Space?
Are we not all
Refugees?
Where are we
going?
REJOICE
If we look
closely, we will see that many of our problems arise
from Envy; when it is present, we are unable to live
at peace with ourselves.
Without it
being mentioned in the curricula, our education
systems teach us to be envious, greedy, and
selfishly ambitious, which are very destructive, and
are the antitheses of peace, contentment and
happiness. If we were taught and shown how to
cooperate with others for the common good, and
discovered joy therein, instead of how to compete
with and be better than others, there would be far
less tension and strife in the would. It can be
done. Why isn’t it?
Instead of envying others,
try rejoicing
with them for
their good
fortune;
it is much more
constructive and
productive of
happiness.
RIVER
Many of us
have grown used to a high standard of living, and
expect it to remain that way, or get better, never
dreaming it might deteriorate.
But conditions
seldom accord with our desires, and we complain and
blame others for what we perceive to be our
misfortunes. Is it reasonable to do so?
Life does not
always go on an incline, from good to better;
neither does it always follow a downward curve; nor
does it always go on a level plane. Instead, as
attested by history, it rises and falls, like the
waves of the sea; sometimes we are up on the crests,
sometimes down in the troughs, and sometimes in
between. Or, to use another simile:
Life is like a
river—
Straight, it
seldom flows,
But twists and
turns
And winds about,
As on and on it
goes.
SACRIFICE
There is always
more than one way of looking at anything, and only
our habitual, fixed points-of-view prevent us from
seeing them; narrowness of outlook easily leads to
prejudice.
If, while
doing something for the community, or helping others
in some way, we consider it a sacrifice of our time,
labor or money, it indicates that we are doing it
with more resentment than with joy.
What do we
have and can we give that we have not first
received? This deserves some thought. Life should
not be lived as a personal business-investment, but
as a means of improving the society we all belong
to, and which we call the World, for we can
understand ourselves only as part of something much
bigger than ourselves. Thus, whatever kind of work
we perform, it can be seen as a way of serving
others, and not merely as a way of earning a living.
We benefit in countless ways from the labors of
others, regardless of the fact that we pay for their
products and services, do we not? What, then, can
we contribute and put back?
"There is no such thing as sacrifice;
there is only opportunity to serve."
Talbot Mundy: OM.
SALVATION
For
45 years He had wandered around, explaining to
anyone who could understand and who would listen,
what He had found beneath the Bodhi tree on the
night of His Enlightenment. Now, here He was, about
to pass away in a forest near the town of
Kusinagara. News of His impending demise had spread,
and His disciples had come from far and wide to see
their beloved Master for the last time. Most of them
were sad at the thought of losing the mainstay of
their lives, but those who had understood deeply
what He had indicated, and those who were
enlightened themselves thereby, were calm and
composed.
Ananda,
His favorite disciple and personal attendant, was
greatly distressed that his Master was about to
leave him—he,
who had still to find enlightenment—but
the Buddha consoled him, saying: "Enough, Ananda, do
not grieve and weep, for have I not taught you that
it is in the nature of things near and dear to us
that we should be separated and cut off from them?
How could it be that this body of mine, having been
born should not die? For a long time, Ananda, you
have served me faithfully in thought, word and deed,
graciously, pleasantly, with a whole heart, and
without measure. Great good have you gathered,
Ananda. Now you should put forth energy, and soon,
you too, will be one who is free!"
"All
compounded things
are impermanent.
work out your
own salvation
with
diligence."
The last words of
the Buddha.
SAY-MEAN
Words
are like tools: we must know their limits and how to
use them. A hammer, for example, is used for driving
in nails, but not for cutting wood or writing a
letter; a saw is indispensable for cutting wood, but
not for driving in nails or rowing a boat. Some
people are artists with words, while others are
clumsy and unskilled.
Today,
there is a great over-use of swear-words, to the
point where they have little shock-value. Some
people swear in almost every sentence, which
indicates a poor vocabulary. While it might be
understandable and excusable, in certain
circumstances, to use a strong word, to use them too
frequently is like using bombs to kill ants, and
when a situation arises where a strong word might be
justified, the user has none left, having used them
all on trivial matters. It is hard to imagine that
when the film, Gone With The Wind was being
made, the well-known line, "Frankly, my dear, I
don’t give a damn", only with great difficulty
escaped the censors, ‘damn’ being considered a
strong word in those days, whereas today, except to
the very prim, it means almost nothing!
Skillful
use of words makes for good communication and
clarity of understanding, while poor use leads to
misunderstanding, bad feelings, and often to
violence.
"If you don’t
know
how to say
what you mean,
how shall you
be able to mean
what you say?"
From the film: The Last Emperor.
SCIENCE
There
are, as it were, two centers in our being: the
Brain, which is the seat of the intellect, thought,
or reason, and the Heart, where feeling or emotion
come from; this is a way of explaining the
difference in nature between Thought and Emotion,
Wisdom and Compassion.
Now,
a person might be highly intellectual and wise, but
without Love and Compassion, he could be cold and
uncaring. As St. Paul, in 1 Corinthians 13:1, said:
"If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but
do not have love, I have become a sounding-piece of
brass or a clashing cymbal". Conversely, a good and
kind person, lacking wisdom to guide his goodness
and kindness, might be foolish and do a lot of harm,
even if unintentionally.
So,
Intellect and Feeling, Wisdom and Compassion, must
go together, in mutual support of each other. And
although today, in many people’s eyes, Science has
superceded and discredited Religion, it is not so;
it has challenged Religion, to be sure, and has
demonstrably proved some of its fondly held dogmas
incorrect and obsolete, but this has been good for
Religion in helping it understand the need for a
serious stock-taking; it hasn’t invalidated it.
Science,
on the other hand, could benefit by applying the
spirit of Religion in various fields, for example:
vivisection, its activities affecting the
environment, and by refusing to invent, develop and
produce things detrimental to human life.
And,
now that our eyes have been opened, we can, and
must, strive to amalgamate Science with Religion—as
they are not really the opposing magnetic poles that
people once took them to be—to produce a Religious
Science, or a Scientific Religion. If we do not,
then these two great fields of human endeavor must
remain antagonists.
"Science
without Religion
is crippled;
Religion
without Science
is blind."
Albert
Einstein.
STARS
Paradoxical as
it may seem, the search for happiness is the
greatest obstacle to finding it.
Suppose you
could eat your favorite food for every meal, day in
and day out, with nothing else: how long would you
be satisfied with it? You would probably soon grow
sick of it!
In the same
way, if we were happy all the time, we would not be
happy, but bored. We can know happiness as happiness
only when we have something to compare and contrast
it with. Thus, we might experience Nirvana
only because we know Samsara; we can know
liberation only because of bondage or captivity; one
cannot stand alone, by itself.
Understanding
this can help us to deal with the problems and
difficulties of life, and transform them from
obstacles into stepping-stones.
"The stars
appear
brightest
on the
darkest
night".
Persian proverb.
STRONGER
Throughout
history, the idea that "Might is Right" has
prevailed, and still largely does. During the
hey-day of the British Empire, the term ‘Gun-boat
diplomacy’ was coined, from the method of sending in
the Navy to bring about the desired results.
The
United Nations has tried to prevent aggression by
stronger countries towards weaker, but has had
limited success. A full report of what happened in
Panama when the Americans invaded that country some
years ago has yet to be released, but there is
strong evidence that they were not the ‘Knights in
shining armor’—the
liberators—that
they would have us believe, and the U.S. political
system seems in great need of a strong dose of
reform; far has it strayed from the noble
Declaration of Independence of 1776!
The
human-race has known so little peace, so beset has
it been with war and strife. Presently, there are
almost 40 wars, of varying intensity, raging in
different parts of the world. Why are human-beings
so stupid? Why do we learn so slowly?
To
become a soldier, trained to kill, requires little
intelligence or education, compared with that
required for becoming a doctor, who must be gentle
and caring, but at the same time firm and strong. To
destroy is easy—any
fool can do that; but to create, heal, preserve and
save requires intelligence and effort, does it not?
He who
saves life
is stronger
than the one
who kills.
SUFFERING
Faced with the
condition of the world, and all the crime, suffering
and injustice thereof, some of us say: "Well, what
can I do? I am nobody, and am not important." We
thereby absolve ourselves of any responsibility, and
do nothing.
But is it
really true that, because we may not be rich,
famous, or influential, we can do nothing? Not
really. Whether we intend to do anything or not, we
are doing something, merely by living on this
planet. Each of us is only one person, to be sure,
but the population of the Earth—now about six
billion—is composed of such units, is it not?
Come, take stock of
yourself; away with weak thoughts! You are
important. And how? Well, consider this:
Each and every
one of us
Has the capacity
to increase
or decrease
the suffering
in the world.
SUNSHINE
What
would life be like if it were always easy? Would
there be a reason to try to improve things? Would we
not stagnate? H.G. Wells’ classic futuristic novel,
The Time Machine, tells of a people known as
the ‘Eloi’, who, long, long before, had brought
nature under control, and had nothing to do but
stretch out their hands to pick and eat. But the
ease of life had robbed them of their will-power,
made them soft and effeminate and vulnerable to
other, more-aggressive life-forms.
Without
hardship to inspire and spur us on, we would not
have developed as a species, but would probably
still be living in caves, gnawing on raw meat and
wearing animal skins. Because of the pains and
difficulties of life, and our ability to think and
reason, however, we have come this far, and will
thereby go hence. Certainly, we are not out of the
woods yet, and are still faced with many and great
problems, mainly of our own making (and perhaps we
always will be, as there seems to be an element of
mischief-making in us); but, if we strive, and learn
to cooperate for the common good, we shall almost
surely find solutions to the problems. However, life
must first be accepted for what it is, without
pretending it is otherwise.
"All
sunshine
makes
a
desert."
(Arabic proverb).
TEST
Retirement from
work is something that many people look forward to,
while others do not; in any case, it is a milestone,
though maybe more of a psychological one than
anything else. Upon retirement, some people feel
their useful life is over, and they must let
themselves sink into decline, like the setting sun,
and eventually die.
The admonition
of the Ancients: "Know Thyself", is advice we could
all apply to our advantage. Why should